Here’s what Osho has to say about love:
Falling in love
It is sad that the vast majority of us are looking for love outside ourselves, but the love we’ve all been seeking all this time, is inside of us. Once we find that love suddenly we become more loving. We begin to love ourselves and endows us the capacity to love others. The love we seek outside, is the love for the outer man. The love that the outer man seeks, is the love that emanates from the inner man.